As I went through the questions and thought more about what being a man for me means, more than anything I am realizing how distorted the world would define these questions as compared to what my heart feels. I feel a man is rooted in peace, love and strength for both our families and communities whereas the world would make many men believe their role is intended more as primarily a provider.

Met with @Jared Johnson and @Chance Lundgren and going thru things together and decided to start over. In going thru the questions the one "what does a man do for himself" I answered "everything" because I read that to mean vs what others do for me...no one does anything for me. In other words, it didn't even occur to me it was asking about my self care....that was revealing to me.