On Monday, I ran a live masterclass called Heal The Past. It was about something that affects all of us, including coaches. We think we're reacting to what's happening right now… But often we're reacting through the lens of things that happened months, years, sometimes even decades ago. The betrayal we never really got over. The relationship that damaged our trust. The parent we never felt good enough for. The rejection we still carry. The conversations that were never resolved. And those experiences don't just disappear because we've trained to become a coach. We bring ourselves into the coaching room. Our beliefs. Our triggers. Our assumptions. Our relationship patterns. And sometimes our unresolved stuff can influence what we hear in a client's story, the questions we ask and even the side we unconsciously take. If you missed Monday's Heal The Past masterclass, you can watch the replay here. But there's something important I want you to take from it… Recognising your patterns is only the beginning. Because you can understand WHY something triggers you… You can recognise where your resentment comes from… You can even see exactly how your past has shaped the person you've become… And still repeat the same patterns. That's why I created the Relationship You Deserve. It's a 12-week guided process designed to help you actually DO the work. Yes, it can transform what's happening in your own relationships. But as a coach, there's another benefit. The more work you do on yourself, the cleaner you can become in your coaching. You start recognising patterns without automatically projecting your own experience onto them. You become more aware of your own triggers. You can challenge things in clients that perhaps you previously couldn't see. And you experience the work yourself rather than simply learning another technique to use on somebody else. Inside the Relationship You Deserve, we'll work through three major areas.