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When last did you do something just for fun? If you're struggling to remember, you're in the right place. Put down the pressure. Pick up the sparkle.

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4 contributions to Midlife Self Discovery Circle
✅The Question That Started This Week Has An Answer
Earlier this week I asked you who you were at 28, before everyone needed something from you. That is not a question you answer in one sitting. It is a question you live your way back into. That is exactly what I AM Free was built for. It is one of six self paced programmes inside premium, and it goes all the way into the part of you that got quietly put on hold. No live calls to fit in. No pressure to have it figured out by Sunday. Just you, working your way back to yourself in your own time. ☑️If this week's question stayed with you, I AM Free is where it keeps going. ➡️Take a look in the classroom whenever you are ready.
✅The Question That Started This Week Has An Answer
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Sherbet, @Lindi Harmse - at 28 I had already lost myself. I was a mother, wife and a senior conference coordinator. Eish 🫣
Try it tonight...📝
I want to try something with you today. Introduce yourself to me. Without mentioning your kids. Without mentioning your job or your role at home. Just you, in a few words, as a person. Most midlife women cannot finish that sentence. It comes up blank, or they start and then quickly loop back to someone else. Her daughter is heading to university. She has been a stay at home mum for fifteen years. She runs a team of thirty. ➡️We know exactly who we are in relation to other people. Ask us who we are on our own, and the room goes quiet. That is what twenty years of being needed looks like. The woman you were before everyone needed something from you did not disappear. She just got hidden. And finding her is not reinvention. It is recovery. 📝Try the question tonight. On paper. You might surprise yourself.
Try it tonight...📝
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This is such a brilliant question - authenticity is so important. Thank you for prompting me to keep going and to make sure I don't lose myself in the noise again.
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🤔💭Still thinking about Monday's worksheet? If you tried the question, the introduce yourself without your roles one, what happened? Did the words come easily? Did you go blank? Did something unexpected come up? There is no wrong answer here. This is one of the most revealing questions I know, and the place where the answer stalls is exactly where the work begins. ➡️Comment the first word that came to mind when you tried this, even if it was silence.
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Wow - this is quite a question. I do think that for many people, they've been playing that role for so long that they've forgotten their true selves. I've been doing identity work for a few months now and I am still discovering new things about myself every day. It's a beautiful process.
🎁 This one's for the woman who's been last on her own list.
This workbook is my gift to you. Honestly, it came from my own journey. It's for the woman who has spent years showing up for everyone else and slowly forgot how remarkable she truly is. Inside Nurturing Your Self-Worth, you'll find: ✦ A gentle deep dive into what self-worth actually means and why yours matters ✦ Honest reflection on the beliefs that have been quietly holding you back ✦ Tools to silence the negative self-talk and replace it with something kinder ✦ Exercises on self-compassion, resilience, and setting boundaries that protect your peace ✦ 52 Self-worth journal prompts to keep you anchored in what is true and good about you Work through it at your own pace. Be honest. Be gentle with yourself. You are so worth this. 💛 💌Download it below and let me know in the comments: which section speaks to you most? 💠After reading the section on negative self-talk, what's the one belief you're ready to let go of? 💠What word comes up for you when you think about your own self-worth right now? No wrong answers. 💠Drop a 💛 below if you've ever put everyone else first and forgot to save some of that love for yourself. 💌DOWNLOAD HERE💌 https://drive.google.com/file/d/1GKeSxxPOcUD7DE2zCWx2oTo2xmeL7ABF/view?usp=sharing
🎁 This one's for the woman who's been last on her own list.
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