The events from earlier this week compelled me to put down my thoughts surrounding the idea and presentation of masculinity and how it relates to Smart Funny Tortured. It begins with a simple observation: what we often see modeled as “strength” from positions of power isn’t strength at all—it’s aggression, bullying, and insecurity. That’s counterfeit masculinity. And counterfeit masculinity breeds shame. But here’s where this connects to our Smart Funny Tortured framework: - Smart → Real strength begins with clarity of mind. Not just intellect, but discernment. Knowing the difference between counterfeit power and true sovereignty. - Funny → The noble masculine carries lightness, joy, and flow. He doesn’t need to crush others to prove his worth—he can laugh, connect, and play without fear. - Tortured → Many of us grew up under bullies or systems that mocked sensitivity. Our pain here is real. But it can be reclaimed as fuel—for empathy, for courage, for protection. This is reclamation in action: taking back the essence of what it means to be strong, and refusing to let shame or bluster define us. 💬 Community Prompt I’d love to hear from you: - What moments in your life have shown you the difference between counterfeit strength and sovereign strength? - How does this idea of the noble masculine show up in your own Smart, Funny, or Tortured story? 👉 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9ts0oTK0UCI?si=J3OptG1j4S23hyli And then share your reflections below. Let’s model what sovereignty looks like—together.

📌 Welcome to Smart Funny Tortured (SFT) on Skool 😀 This environment helps high-performing humans reclaim who they are. No performative wellness. Just a nourishing community, recovery while being seen, gaining real momentum. 👉 First step (5–10 min) Do the two free exercises in Classroom → Start Here 1. The SFT Starting Point (your Before-the-BS Baseline) 2. The SFT Mini-Module (a bite-size mini-course) Then head straight into The SFT Core Program to keep the momentum going. 👋 Now, introduce yourself below Drop a comment with this template so we can welcome you: - Name & where you’re posting from: - Your current edge (pick one: Smart / Funny / Tortured) and one sentence why... - Link (optional): IG/YouTube/Website Let yourself be seen. This is a practice of sovereignty, not perfection. 🧭 How we roll (community norms) - Sovereignty first. Take full responsibility for your mental, emotional, and physical health. - Real > performative. Share from integration, not crisis. - Confidentiality. Honor stories that aren’t yours to tell. - Care & boundaries. We’re not a crisis service. If you’re in immediate danger or crisis, use local emergency services or 988 (U.S.). Read the Mental Health & Crisis Disclaimer in the Community Guidleines for resources and clarity. 🚀 Ready to go deeper? - Start the SFT Core Program → (Classroom) - Join the SFT Check-in Chat (30 min) each week for light accountability and next steps. When you complete your Essence Synthesis - “One Move by Friday,” post it in the Community using the template inside that lesson. Early movers earn the Unlocked badge.

How is everyone doing? I am finally getting to use the integration tool and it's SO AMAZING!!!!! How is everyone else's experience going??? Sending love.

I am new to all of this and find it intriguing and terrifying at the same time.

New day. New move. What’s ONE thing you’re carrying into today that makes you: - Smarter? - Funnier? - Cozier with your Tortured side? Call it. Claim it. Drop it below. 👇