Can’t wait to hear about your presentation in Ohio! I already know “Chef Tunji” cooked! 👨🏾🍳🔥 And “they wasn’t readyyyy!” (in my best Kevin Hart voice 😜). But to answer your question, the best advice I’ve ever received came “from within” during a time of prayer and meditation (my “ME” time): “Candis, I never called you to strive FOR your identity; I called you to serve FROM your identity.” As someone who naturally pours into others, I had to learn the difference between my reach, rhythm, responsibilities, and roles. Just because something is within my reach doesn’t mean I’m called to carry it, and not every role is mine to hold forever. I also had to “unlearn” that my worth is tied to my performance. I don’t have to earn my value by doing, fixing, leading, or carrying everyone else because I am already enough in Christ! That realization changed everything for me bruh! So, noooow, I don’t work to “become somebody”; I serve from the security of “already being” someONE! 🗣️ DYHM? Because ya girl is 1 of 1! 😌🙏🏾✨