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My story with healing trauma
(Donโ€™t want to read? Scroll to the bottom to watch my video on this) From January 2024 to April 2024, I went through a very rough time in life, it happens. You see at school my only friend in my class left, and that left me lonely and at lunch and breaks, I of course did not want to be alone so I ran around with people in the year below me and they were never true friends. I talked to these guys on the bus and occasionally outside of school so I thought it would be fine of I hanged around with them at lunch, break and etc. So that is what I do, it is fine at first, no bullying. But as time goes on it begins, it starts small, just a few names every now and then, no biggie. But it progressively gets worse and worse, I foolishly play into their โ€œgameโ€ too. I give them reactions, as a joke not cause I was actually mad at them but just for my own fun too. But that gets out of control, they do it so much that it actually pisses me off and more and more people do it. It got so bad like 50+ people would call me the nick name and just bully me so bad. I actually left school early in my final year, cause of it, and this brings me to the point were I finally begin healing this awful trauma that would forever affect me, make me less money for the rest of my life of I did not heal it. It begins in April of 2024โ€ฆ By this point I had been on the traditional mental health habits like meditation, gratitude journaling and etc. So it begins here, the morning after I left school I began my healing journey the first thing I did was journal the whole story in brutal detail, then I reframed the story to make it seem like it was a good thing, and I wrote why the bullies, bullied me so I could understand they were the true victims not me. This helped tremendously, from that point on I kept that note close by, so I could look at it anytime I felt down. That was the biggest thing for me healing this trauma honestly was journaling that.
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Why Mental Health Is Important
(Donโ€™t want to read? Scroll to the bottom to watch my video on this) I first got into improving my mental health in November 2023. And it changed my life it not only made me happier, but it was also the reason I achieved my goals this year in making money, fitness and etc. I have learned speaking to tons of business owners who โ€œmake it.โ€ They complain that they still feel unhappy. They think success and materialistic items is how you become happy. They are mistaken, prioritising your mental health, by doing mental health habits, healing trauma and etc, these are so important and they are not a waste of time, some people I help think they are. Will be the key to you unlocking happiness beyond money. ๐Ÿ”‘
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My unhealed trauma kept me depressedโ€ฆ
(Donโ€™t want to read? Scroll to the bottom to watch my video on this) Let me tell you a story, I remember it was 2023, I had just watched a mental health guide from a YouTuber called Hamza, and while it did change my life. I started meditating, gratitude journaling, you name it all the traditional mental health habits, which I still do to this day as they are fantastic. But there was a hidden blockade I was unaware of that was still keeping me from my happiest self. Unhealed traumaโ€ฆ It did not matter how many minutes I meditated, how many cold showers I took, I would still never reach my true happiest self, and healing trauma was the hidden thing missing. You see, I had tons of unhealed trauma from years earlier, such as bullying incidents, family and etc. Let this be a lesson to you, fix the deeper inner problems first as they are most important, and think of the habits as the icing on the cake.
 My unhealed trauma kept me depressedโ€ฆ
Success does not guarantee happiness
(Donโ€™t want to read? Scroll to the bottom to watch my video on this) Let me tell you a story. Back when I was around 15 years old I got my first โ€œtaste,โ€ of success in business. I started an ebay selling business I was still in school at the time and in April of 2024, it blew up. I went from ยฃ0 a month to ยฃ1000 made this month. And that was my goal for so, so long, yet I was still feeling like โ€œmeh.โ€ The real reason why was: There was no purpose in my work, I did not enjoy it and did not feel like I was impacting the world in a good way. Of you too want true happiness beyond money, find the work you love, it is the only way, and heal all your messed up past traumaโ€™s you have been avoided. Success alone will not make you happy. ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐ฌ๐ค ๐ฆ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐จ๐ซ ๐ƒ๐Œ ๐ˆ'๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐.
Success does not guarantee happiness
What happens of you never heal your trauma?
(Donโ€™t want to read? Scroll to the bottom to watch my video on this) I have personally helped over 100 entrepreneur's with healing their trauma and as a result made them happy beyond money. And so my promise to you is of you fully focus to the end you will know exactly the consequences of those who never heal and how to begin healing today. So let me walk you through the 2 part framework. Part 1: The negatives Of you never heal your trauma, it means permanently you will be in a survival mode state. You will choose instant gratification like junk food, video games over delayed gratification like working on a business and clean eating. You will forever not be as happy as you should be and never be the real you. You will operate out of the wrong desires for tons of big life choices like what career and etc. And there is much moreโ€ฆ Part 2: How to start healing ASAP Follow my OP healing guide here. ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐ฌ๐ค ๐ฆ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐จ๐ซ ๐ƒ๐Œ ๐ˆ'๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐.
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Helping purposeful entrepreneurs heal trauma by 50% in 90 days โค๏ธ | ๐ƒ๐Œ ๐ฆ๐ž "๐‡๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ" ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐œ๐จ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ . | 50+ entrepreneurs helped.

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