Donāt confuse preparation for failure
Sometimes in life you get what you want. Other times⦠you get what you need to grow into the person who can actually handle it. Most people see that as failure. They think the delay means theyāre not ready, or the setback means theyāre off track. But after doing this for decades, I can tell you...those āsetbacksā are often the reps that build your strength. The lesson youāre learning right now may feel inconvenient, even unfair. But itās actually preparing you to carry the success without crumbling when you get it. The truth is this: wanting it isnāt enough. Youāve gotta become someone who can sustain it. And that happens in the uncomfortable seasons...not the easy ones. Confidence comes from showing up again after you stumble. Clarity comes after the messy attempts, not before them. The struggle builds capacity if you let it. So no...youāre not behind. Youāre being conditioned. Youāre being shaped into the person who will not just reach the goal⦠but hold it, grow it, and lead with it. If you stop looking at this moment as proof youāre failing and start seeing it as the phase thatās building your foundation, everything changes. Because the people who learn in the struggle become the ones who are unstoppable when the opportunity arrives.