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2 contributions to Sons Remember
I just did this experiment with my Son and HIGHLY recommend giving it a shot
A lot of my conversations with my Son, tend to be a bit more one sided. Me asking him how things (work/relationships/challenges, etc) are going and listening more than speaking. Or, I’m offering some sort of advice based on things I notice him doing or not doing. 👉 Here’s what we did and is now your homework I asked my Son, “What’s something you’ve wanted to ask or say to me but haven’t, because you weren’t sure how I’d react?” And the twist - I got to do the same with him. The answers were profound and led us to a different/beautiful place altogether. No BS, this was his response after we had the conversation. “…and we didn’t need years of therapy to get here!” Surprisingly, the conversations flowed. I thought it would be a little uncomfortable, especially because of the subject matters. But it wasn’t and I’m so thankful we had an opportunity to grow as a Father and Son. Do it - it’ll be one of the most important things you do today, and you absolutely won’t regret it!
2 likes • May 20
I can't wait to ask this when he gets home from school. Thank you for sharing this @Gino Hijada
1 like • May 22
@Gino Hijada I sat down with my oldest and did this exercise. He paused and thought for a moment and then came back with nothing. I pressed and probed lightly, but he still came back sincerely with nothing. Doing this helped to create the opportunity and I’ll keep doing this checkin. This way, when he completely doesn’t want anything to do with me, he knows it will come occasionally and has the opportunity to be open with me.
Genuinely curious to know your answer (I promise you - it’s there)
What’s one thing your son is going through right now that you only know about, because he told someone else — and why do you think he didn’t he tell you?
0 likes • May 16
@Gino Hijada my son and I have sit downs. These are moment of vulnerability, but they've been getting less and less as he gets older. He will go to me before mom, but it doesn't mean he tells me everything.
2 likes • May 16
@Gino Hijada he's 10. I've spent the last decade learning about myself and how the brain works. When he was 5 we learned he had ADHD like me and that's when I really started sitting with him.
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