Good question Christine, if I understand this correctly,.. if I have been triggered by a comment or action, in order for me to “ grow & understand “ I need to look at the situation and discover the parts of me that were triggered- then do some soul searching ( do the work) to look back on past experiences in my life when similar situations happened & how I dealt with them. However the growth that I am seeking is to not fall back on old patterns-feeling small & wrong- but to love those parts of me that were hurt, damaged, wounded. Am I understanding this correctly? & How I relate this to the cosmos and my intentions, well - I’m not sure how it relates. ( I was away last week & rather distracted. I thought my moon was in the 11th house? I was looking at my birth chart. Is that correct?)