Leave the driveway and run through NorthWood Hills….Past the 1000 square foot rental house on Oakhurst St where we brought our first baby home from the hospital….Down Elm Street past the historic, antebellum homes to the courthouse lawn….Through town square, down the hill until I see the gates of the track….2 miles on the dot….Stack miles on the track then back out the gate….Past the kid’s favorite ice cream shop and back to the courthouse lawn….Down North St past the friendly older couple on their front porch waiting to wave at me….Down the dark, secluded Robertson Road until I make it to the hill that peers down into my back window. The house is still. Although I run other routes on occasion, this is the route that I’ve logged 90% of my miles on during the last three years I’ve become serious about endurance training. Of all of those miles, at least 80% of them have been at night, after 8pm, once the kids are asleep and my wife is settled in bed. I have three small children ages 5, 3, and 2. I am fortunate, at 33 years old, to be part of a thriving, busy law practice that keeps me working odd hours. I prefer running in the mornings but unpredictable wake up schedules and almost daily 8:00 a.m. court appearances make consistent early runs logistically infrequent. I used to let this bother me but, somewhere along the way, I decided to embrace it. Almost weekly, someone that follows me on Strava sends a text like this one yesterday from my brother-in-law: “Did you really run 3 miles at 9:30 p.m. last night? On a Friday night? Why, bro?” The people sending these texts don’t realize that these nights runs are no longer just a form of exercise. They are a necessity. A part of my newfound identity. In 2018, my wife and I made the decision to move to the most northern part of Mississippi, away from our hometown nestled in the Mississippi hill country, to accept an associate attorney position at the law firm I continue to work with today. It was only an hour and a half from our hometown but, due to the proximity to Memphis, it felt like moving to the “big city” compared to the small, 3 stop light town we grew up in. Since that move, we’ve had an apartment, a rental home, three babies, lots of tears and heartache, lots of growing up, lots of growing closer, our current home, our church family, and lots of joy. This place is the only place my children have ever called home.