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Learn by heart or commit to memory?
Whatโ€™s your preference when you give a talk? Do you memorize every word and aim for zero mistakes? Or do you trust that what needs to be said will show up when the moment arrives? Iโ€™ve done short talks of five minutes and full-day events of four hours or more. In the beginning, I wrote everything out and learned it by heart. Crafting the โ€œperfectโ€ talk and memorizing it definitely has advantages. Structure. Clarity. Tight delivery. But thereโ€™s a downside: what happens when your mind goes blank? When one sentence disappears, and suddenly your whole talk feels shaky? Itโ€™s no secret that many TEDx talks are meticulously crafted and memorized, which often leads to an incredibly polished delivery. On the other hand, thereโ€™s the โ€œwinging itโ€ approach. You know your main ideas, but you allow space for spontaneity. That can feel alive, dynamic, and even adventurous. Of course, there are many variations in between. Iโ€™m curious, what do you prefer? And what does your preparation process look like?
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@Stuart Wedge Using the gesture to literally illustrate the idea makes it unforgettable. Spot on
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@Stuart Wedge ๐Ÿฅณ
Which do you rely on most when youโ€™re communicating your ideas?
Pick your go-to! And drop a quick comment below with one tip or trick you use to make that element work even better. Letโ€™s share our secrets again! ๐Ÿฅณ
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@Linda Berg Love it. And I agree. When it's genuine, it radiates effortlessly. The intentional trigger is just a way to prep the room until that natural connection kicks in.
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@Marcel Lahaije Finishing strong consistently is where the real gains show up. Every time you push that last bit, it compounds over time.
Social media v old skool communication
How has social media changed the way people communicate and build relationships?
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@Linda Berg Video isn't mandatory, just one way to experiment and share your ideas. Starting with intimacy sounds perfect. Short, authentic, and relatable.
1 like โ€ข Mar 13
@Marcel Lahaije hahah Guess you can ask any wife
Feedback Preference
When someone gives feedback, do you preferโ€ฆ
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1 like โ€ข Mar 13
@Linda Berg A very grounded perspective. Feedback that highlights impact on others is always powerful, and pairing that with respect for the giver makes it even more valuable.
2 likes โ€ข Mar 13
@Marcel Lahaije it can definitely feel risky. Feedback is only as useful as the intention and the delivery behind it. When done thoughtfully, it can unlock growth, but careless feedback just causes friction. I'd say it's not overrated, just often mishandled.
What FIRES YOU UP!!? ๐Ÿ”ฅ
I absolutely LOVE being in front of a live audience teaching them something that will have a massive impact on their lives. I've taught a lot through presentations & trainings in the corporate world, IRL and virtually, and nothing fires me up more than being there FOR my audience and seeing them fired up with me to them go take action. It's an AWESOME feeling! What does it for you?! ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ
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What FIRES YOU UP!!? ๐Ÿ”ฅ
2 likes โ€ข Mar 2
@Natalie Duncan Has it always been both?
1 like โ€ข Mar 13
@Marcel Lahaije Exactly!The contrasts are what make the story bloom. Rain and flowers, tension and release, laughter and silence.
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