1. I'm supposed to be strong, but inside I'm barely holding it together. 2. I provide and protect, but I don't feel alive. 3. I don't want my kids to grow up and say, "He was always angry. He was never really there." 4. I want to be better, but I feel like I've already messed it all up. 5. I have friends, but I don't have brothers in the fight with me. Do any of these statements resonate with you? If so drop the number to which one in the comments or shoot me a DM if your not comfortable posting it public yet.

Tonight's call will be about taking action. So, come ready to maybe hear something you're not ready for. Or try and be open to share.

I'm sorry gentlemen I forgot I changed the call time to 7pm. Also I was out longer than expected but it was much needed time with the kids. I will do better next week and there will be more structure in the calls from now on.

🧱 The Weight of Becoming a Man in Today’s World 🧱 Let’s speak the truth, brothers—being a man in today’s world isn’t easy. Young men are growing up in a culture that’s confused about masculinity. They’re told to “man up,” but also told not to be too masculine. They’re expected to lead, but often grow up without someone to show them how. They carry silent burdens—fear, pressure, pain—and are told to just deal with it. No wonder so many feel lost. Numb. Angry. Alone. But hear this—being a man doesn’t mean having it all figured out. It means showing up anyway. It means choosing responsibility over comfort. It means walking through fire and not letting it harden your heart. To the young men out there trying to figure it out: 👊 You’re not weak for struggling. 👊 You’re not broken for feeling lost. 👊 And you’re not alone in this fight. Keep going. Keep growing. Lean into the brotherhood. Real strength is forged, not handed down. Drop a 🧱 if you’ve felt this pressure but refuse to quit.

If you could go back and change one thing about your life what would it be and why?