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I was reading up on resistance today
And saw this: Type of resistance - Description - Felt sense Mental resistance - Arguing with, analyzing, or trying to fix the feeling - Tight forehead, racing thoughts. Tight forehead, huh? 🤔 For those unfamiliar, resistance is basically the tension of not allowing yourself to feel an emotion or a feeling. There's different types of resistances, but mental resistance is one that has a felt sense of a tight forehead. Mental resistance --> physiologically causes a tight forehead --> tight forehead physically causes less blood blow, and thus hair loss, especially in the front. Interesting connection, huh?
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Itchy scalp - balding observation
I notice today my scalp is extra itchy. Especially in the front and I produce a lot of dandruff. Here's what's causing it: -I feel constant worry and tension, because I fear upsetting my girlfriend over text -In my mind, I already imagine how she gets angry with me over a comment she misinterprets -(Even when she actually hasn't said anything - it's literally my mind fearing the worst outcome, and fear coming up at the first thought) -This causes a huge stress and fear loop, that's been going on for hours -Frontal area of my scalp is 5/5 itchy, red and scratching elsewhere on scalp makes dandruff fall If I try to understand what the fear is, it's: "If I upset her, she might expose me and accuse me of being controlling (even when I'm trying to be suggestive)" -> I feel I am bad -> I fear abandonment These are some of my deepest issues regarding authority, attachment wounds, and fear of abandonment. While these are things that are causing me emotional suffering, the silver lining is I'm also noticing I'm having these physical symptoms. They play part to my hairline receding.
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Just came back from vacations! 🏝️
I really enjoyed south of france. It was a wind-down period very much needed for me and my nervous system. My main takeaway from this vacation is that my sympathetic system is still over-activated, despite my continuous efforts to bring it down. This makes me think: Most of times if we are chronically worried people, it's not sufficient with stopping 2-3 times along the days to breath, we have to change the ways we interact with the world. How we express ourselves towards the future, how we look to the past. Don't get me wrong I know this is a balding community and I won't forget it. But let me state it clear, and bold for you: If we don't get our sympathetic system to stop chronically screaming at us, our hair won't ever recover. Just my two cents after coming back from a really good and enjoyable vacations.
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Good to have you back, man! I'm glad you enjoyed your vacation. Just taking a break from our usual environment can at least temporarily give us relief. I know vacations can even feel stressful and not relaxing while being triggered, but at least your mind is occupied with other things. Glad to hear you are stopping 2-3 times a day to forcefully break the mechanical patterns. It's very hard, but important in establishing in a routine. I think you being activated multiple times a day is because of many different things coming up. It shows how much stuff we have stuffed down that is screaming for our attention. I have a feeling that some of this inner turmoil can be dealt with inner work methodologies (such as EFT tapping, IFS, TRE for physiological stress). It's something I'm currently investigating. If inner stuff is dealt with, stopping and regulating yourself also becomes easier. Thanks for sharing! Your presence and comments here keep me going 🔥🔥
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Looking forward to getting a 1:1 call 😉
I was aware of being in sympathetic activation
Today I became more aware of how my nervous system went into fight/flight mode (or sympathetic activation, as described in the Hair Symptoms Tracker) What happened was: - I was firstly triggered over a small thing with my girlfriend (which contributed to nervous system tension) - I was then approached my father - I'm not usually scared of him, but sometimes my nervous system feels unease around him, which I can't really explain - I sat down and browsed the internet for plane tickets, with him sitting behind me - During that time, I noticed many different symptoms: - Fear activation, low level unsafety - Tension in my scalp, especially my top hair - I felt watched and judged, as he was sitting behind my back - As we were browsing, I felt like I wanted to go away and just leave him be - Not going away caused my body to have increased tension and energy in my body - a helpless feeling - in the end, this caused me to feel drained and fatigued after this event My father is a good (bald, hehe) man, and I love him. I realize my nervous system reaction is my responsibility, and that he didn't knowingly cause this unease in me -- but regardless of that, I first need to regulate myself. On my own. To feel safe. In my body. This noticing is huge for two reasons: 1) it's something that had always been there, something that I felt unconsciously but were never able to verbally expres 2) I was consciously aware of one of the biggest causes of my hair loss (probably)! I was able to notice the momentary tension in my scalp, my bodily freeze feeling and this fatigue - and I have a system to describe this with! This is definitely getting closer to my balding's root cause!
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@Carlos Losa Thank you, Carlos! I really like that one of your missions here is to help us understand ourselves. There's so much confusion, emotional turmoil, triggers, sympathetic activations etc. So I think just explaining all the dynamics at play here (and cultivating awareness) can offer huge relief, for us, prematurely balding men.
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