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Illuminating that doesn't enlighten
When illuminating is your driving tendency, you'll want to understand why things happened, and you'll want to explain your analysis, too, if you get half a chance. If illuminating (conveying your sense of the meaning in events or their likely consequences) is your instinctive response, you'll often find yourself helping others who matter to understand things. You'll be frustrated if you can't enlighten, if people who haven't taken any time to work out which things matter and which don't ignore your conclusions. That's part of the burden people who are strong in illuminating carry. Have you noticed this? Someone who thinks they know it all, and pushes their conclusions forward, yet isn't paying attention where it matters, and ignores others who are tryng to shine a light into the corners? We all lose when we don't collectively, learn from past experience.
Where don't you fit?
Think about roles you've had, or tasks people wanted done - that you didn't enjoy. You might have performed adequately, yet been bored, frustrated, or found your mind constantly wandering because, well, you'd rather have been ... What's the job or role or position you'd never go back to if you didn't have to please someone who mattered — and why?
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I like setting up systems - I love strategising, designing. And so I get ushered into management positions because I'm 'so good' at organising. I've been treasurer in two different clubs. For that role you want someone who attends to details, constantly. That. is. not. me. I might do it for you, because the act supports a principle I think is important ... BUT. Maybe you don't have the 'patience' to teach. Perhaps you are 'quite happy' with the way things are done and see no reason to change. Maybe you're content to leave the decisions to others. Maybe you leave any needed cleaning up because it can always be done later ... i Work where you're energised. EVERYONE benefits. Founders, I'm looking at you.
What patterns have you seen?
You might not have learned the names we give the patterns in human behaviour yet, but you'll have seen some, or blends of several. The people you interact with will consistently response to things they hear or see in a certain way - what is that way? You might also have noticed a part of your own pattern. I'm always thinking about how I can use what I've learned to make sensible suggestions about changing processes. I want my ideas used, so I found them in the realities I observe. Doesn't mean they are always good, of course - or that I won't change my mind about some aspect of any idea almost as soon as I've formed it. That's the pattern I see in me. It's always been there. Now I've uncovered it and embraced it, I feel stronger and more settled. I know what I intrinsically want to do. What patterns have you seen, either in yourself or in others?
What gives you a lift?
You've done things you really enjoyed, even if only briefly. We all have. Think about what you were doing in those moments. You were probably getting something you wanted. There aren't many things people want. If you were happy, fulfilled or at peace doing something, you were getting more of one of these: - Stability - you increased your safety, security, health or wellbeing - Independence - you increased your sense of identity or autonomy - Proficiency - you increased your knowledge or skill in something you thought important - Accomplishment - you increased your impact where it mattered - Connections - you increased your sense of belonging somewhere - Interdependence - you increased your sense that you are part of a greater whole In every season of life, one of these will matter more than the others. And the one that matters most right now is the reason you're doing what you're doing. Know yourself more deeply.
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@Jason Smith You're welcome. I agree that our emotional reaction to circumstances is the impetus that causes us to act, to support a condition we think needs it.
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@Mark Townsend You are right of course. Agency is controllable. And your third dimension is that which I encourage people to expand into, taking control consciously, rather than instinctively.
Have you identified a tendency?
Have you done the PDF exercise yet (Download it from the Classroom). Each of the six descriptions identifies a tendency. But here's what makes this interesting: the same tendency can appear at different points in someone's pattern. Perhaps, in you, Ideating is where everything starts — the first move, the natural opening. In someone else, Ideating may be where their dominant tendency focuses — identifying possible ways forward after gaining understanding of the impact of new knowledge. Same tendency. But part of a completely different pattern. If you've done the exercise — what did you notice? Did your answer feel like a starting point or a conclusion?
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Yes we are multidimensional, and the strongest instinct has no more effect than a 'tendency to be strongest', at many times it may not be. If Establishing Direction is the action your dominant instinct impels, I'd expect you make decisions confidently, and be able to easily weigh the apparent options and make choices about where to commit your energy - or where others should. But you might have another instinct almost as strong - and those two might be weakened or strengthened by a third, depending on which it is. In me: my triggering instinct more often than not causes me to take actions 'Clarifying Reality'. I stop and verify. I at least review experiences and draw conclusions about what has happened. When faced with circumstances, I tend to ask first "What is going on?" But my dominant, driving instinct impels actions that Forge Ideas. Much of what I do revolves around identifying new ways to do things. But I'm not just an ideator. Caught up between the two is an instinct that impels actions to Stimulate Understanding. The combination of these influences produces the 'Clarifying Ideas' pattern. I strategise. Most people will have, like me, a recurring, dominant pattern in their actions that reflects the influences of two or more instincts, plus other factors. The tendencies recognition exercise will only give you a piece of the puzzle. But thinking about which action you see yourself doing often is a good way to start your understanding of the patterns that communicate everything that matters.
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