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In this Story, the victim choose to forgive her husband. This was my write up after I listened to the entire story from start to finish. What would you do? Wow! This incident made me cry with the victim and also the defender. It may seems strange but I myself agreed with the victim. Forgiveness is the key to a better life, it not only frees the defender, but it also frees the victim. It is the key to inner healing, Forgive as your heavenly father forgive you. Unforgiveness, can make you sick, its a spirit that eats you out like cancer. She is right. The young man was rejected, abused, broken, never knew love, never had anyone that cared about him nor loved him, studies shows that this type of rejection from birth could cause him or a child to died. He survived, but his survival was painful. He knew no love, he never truly knew how to love. He was searching for survival, for live, when it came he did not know how to accept it, sovhe rebelled against it. But that s woman was different, she sees beyond the facade, she saw beyond the pain, the mask. She knew that every one needed love. Everyone deserved a second chance. Thank God because in the midst of this she was also given a second chance. Yes she lost her legs, and her arm and that alone was painful, very painful, but she was given a second chance to live and to be with the baby she never had. And believe me, miracles does happen and God himself could give her back her limbs that she lost. Yes, she made the best decision to love instead of hate. Hate would only add to her new pain. Hate is another spirit, that would eat her out like cancer. It would devour her, cripple her/you. Besides its more work than forgiveness. This young man, truly needed someone to love him, to show him that there is a better way, that someone cares, some one truly cares about him, him the real him on the inside, he had love in him, he had made bad choices because if his vulnerable state, not because he was a bad person with wicked intention, it was a decision he was forced to make because, he was rejected by his parent, by his carer, by society, he was not given the opportunity to even work to take care of his immediate needs, of food. Come on, don't you see it building up?. He had tried, tried tried until society reverted him back to do things underhanded. In this case communication and therapy could have helped him, but he didn't seem to develop trust in anyone. So instead of discussing his true feelings and state of insecurity, the devil here was already busy working behind the scenes and he started to believe in the lies and deception that was been fed to him daily, the thief was here busy stealing him forcing him into this person that he was not and rapidly destroying him in every sense, but Love, love changes everything. Live covers all, love conquers all. Love be makes a difference. What this young man needed truly was love, genuine love. And here he had found it, but he could not recognize it, because no one had exhibited love to him before, not love like this, so he was just passing through the phase. But he truly needed to be loved, to be seen by someone that truly cared.

Did you know, that there is no love to be compared to the unconditional Love of God for us Humans. He only wants what's best for us!!