My thought is as simple as I believe most should be, equal is equal. Breadwinner or not, if you're responsible people, it's just the responsible thing to do, do it. Dishes, trash, changing diapers, it's all a life skill and a duty of every house with such as a duty that needs to be fulfilled. To establish that man must work, or woman must care for child, in today's society is bull.... Such a double standard of the reason equality was given is even more cockamamie bs that defiles any relationship before it began.