The Quiet Thing We Lost Before We Named It
Lao Tzu wrote this over 2,500 years ago. "When the great Tao is forgotten, virtue and morality arise. When knowledge and intelligence are born, the great pretence begins. When there is no harmony within the family, filial piety and devotion arise. When the country is confused, and in chaos, loyal officials appear." At first, that might sound strange. Isn't virtue a good thing? Isn't loyalty something to praise? But here's what I think he was gently pointing out.... We only invent words for what's missing. You don't need a rule about "kindness" in a room where everyone already loves each other. You don't need to announce "I'm devoted" when harmony is just… how you live. Think about your own life.... When was the last time someone had to tell you they were honest? Or prove they were loyal? Probably in a moment when trust was already broken. Lao Tzu isn't against virtue or loyalty. He's inviting us to look deeper. Before the word "respect", there was simply seeing the person in front of you. Before "gratitude practice", there was a quiet heart, already full. So here's my gentle question for us all this week.... What if we stopped trying so hard to be good, and started simply listening for the harmony that's already there? Not the loud, performative kind. The quiet kind. The way your child laughs without reading a parenting book. The way you helped a stranger without pausing to call it "compassion." The Tao was never lost. We just forgot we were already living inside it. Let's remember together. With Love ❤️ Always Mark A pen and ink drawing i made of Lao Tzu in 2016