If masculinity is going to matter in 2026, it won’t be loud. It will be useful. True masculinity in 2026 looks like: • Discipline without supervision • Emotional control under stress • Physical capability • Responsibility without excuses • Presence with your family • Integrity when it costs you • Action instead of talk Masculinity isn’t about going backward. It’s about being capable enough for what’s Question/challenge: Do some true internal reflecting. Look in the mirror and get a little better every day. Don’t overcomplicate things. God. Family. Principles. In that order. I’m currently working on being more grounded in faith, being fully present with my family, and shedding some winter weight. What are you working on right now?

As 2025 rolls to an end, it is time for reflection and evaluation of our accomplishments. It is also the best time to set new goals for the upcoming year. Start the new year making deliberate decisions to improve yourself and the life you're providing for your family. Set 2 short term goals and 2 long term goals using the S.M.A.R.T. method. S. SPECIFIC M. MEASURABLE A. ATTAINABLE / ACTION STEPS R. RELEVANT T. TIME-BOUND Many times goals are discarded because they are too vague. The more specific your intent, the more committed you are to the task at hand. Example A. Goal - I want to lose weight. S. I'm going to lose 20lbs. M. I will weigh myself every morning until my goal is met A. 20lbs is a reasonable goal that can be achieved in a relatively short time frame. R. This goal is relative to my longer term goals of being healthier and improving my quality of life. T. Im going to set a deadline of 3 months to achieve this goal and log weekly and monthly updates. You get the idea. Just saying I want to lose weight is vague and demands no accountability. Be deliberate. Full breaks downs will available in the courses soon. Post your goals or habits you're changing in the comments or DM me. Accountability is a powerful tool to stay on track.

The whole point of this group is to bring strong strong men of faith together so we can support each other and I even tho I know everyone here personally it's still difficult reaching out and being vulnerable..... but here goes. Gents, I need prayer for my marriage. It has become increasingly rocky over the year. Over the past couple of weeks it's gotten worse. I need strength and wisdom and just the hand of the Lord to be on us to heal hearts.

Good Morning Gents. I hope everyone has a blessed day full of great food and loving people. Psalm 133:1 ESV 1 Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity.