We are constantly told as women that we need boundaries and to raise our standards (and agree tbh) but we are rarely ever taught exactly why and what that means. Without that information we go into perfectionism and overthinking, which overwhelms us, we spin out and end up doing things that distract us from our standard and what we want. Even if we do see a woman setting boundaries in her business and relationships, we adopt those same boundaries and they don’t fit with us, it doesn’t end up serving our bottom line or getting us any closer to OUR unique desires. There are SO many specific and contextual reasons why we don’t have them in place, that it would be impossible to get into them all in one video or thread without having 1:1 conversations. But I think I have found an efficient way to help you individually in a general way ;) Our values and desires are unique to us, this is what makes up our standards. Our distractions take focus away from our values and desires, lowering the charge (frequency) and decreasing the magnetism of them. In that area, we become impotent. (could this be why we attract the same type of mennnnn, idk maybe.) Boundaries where we are the most vulnerable to distractions will therefore increase our magnetism and potency. And as a byproduct we will live inside of a 3D reality that meets our higher standards because it has no other option, that is law. Everything in our life will be made up of the same frequency and as we interact with it, it upholds are energetic standard (wherever that is for you.) I would say that discovering where you are vulnerable to the most distraction and then creating boundaries there would automatically increase our UNIQUE standards and the quality of clients, partners, friends and experiences we have. ➡️ 1) Look at your Open (white) Centers here (scroll over with your mouse on desktop): https://paid2exist.online/p2e-chart ➡️ 2) Check your biggest distractions and boundaries to prevent it below