My Mars is in Cancer in the 12th house. All my wars are fought introspectively, deep in the recesses of my mind. I have been snarky and sarcastic in an argument, but mostly I'll just be quiet and listen to the other person, and if the person has been disrespectful to me, raised their voice or yelled, I'll need to walk away and process for awhile. Sensitive, protective and instinctive are all good words to describe how I act on things.