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Question for AuDHD'ers owning a small business -- need your help!
First of all -- many thanks to my dad @Arkadi Velitchko for finding this group and encouraging me to get on the hot seat Q&A. I started midway through the challenge, but the help I got from Jim and this community (Day 4 I believe?) is like nothing I've ever experienced. Y'all are the best. I felt so seen and understood! I've struggled for YEARS with rejection sensitivity -- it is like a cancer in my body -- and while Jim's AI tool is useful, it was far more gratifying to watch DOZENS of humans chime in with their shared experience. SHORT VERSION: For those who've been in a digital service business or something like it -- Jim and I have been in the agency space -- WHAT business model have you moved to that you find you can commit to independently, and have succeeded in without burnout? For nearly a decade, my dad and I have been selling retainer services. We're down to 3 clients from 5-6 at once, and I can barely sustain the work like I was able to back in 2020-2021. I have to push myself to do it (usually ineffective) or do a crazy amount of high-leverage tasks beforehand. It no longer commands the discipline I give my hobbies and special interests. I want some kind of a consulting model that has unlimited income potential and pays for my knowledge. We are sitting on 5 figures of Apple hardware for local AI, and while we shouldn't squander it, I don't want to choose a service I regret -- ie I don't want to have to mask or struggle my way through!! Your input and stories are most welcomed.
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@Arkadi Velitchko Bud -- this is a thoughtful and generous write-up. Thank you for sharing with all. I still concede that our YouTube offer campaign isn't something I could repeat independently. The very FACT of that campaign required your participation and ass-kicking. The results...likely I could repeat them through my own testing and experimentation, using a different approach. Everything else holds, including the fact that I like to turn off the unqualified 🙂 AND the fact that one winning campaign was basically a one-off. In other words, "if my brain could not originate it, I'll be unlikely to repeat it..."
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@Linda T "My experience has been that I have to be fully into something and excited by it or I just don’t have the desire to do it." THIS!!! Same thing here. I will quickly reply to current clients -- usually same-day or within hours -- and to friends about my special interests. When someone asks for something, and the subject matter feels like a huge 'block', my brain will aggressively de-prioritize it. I can put it way up on a plan, and even be clear about how I’ll word my reply, then the next day it'll fall off a cliff, not to be remembered unless a conversation triggered it. I had someone in one of my shared business groups ask about a development need that was sort-of outside my lane, and although I knew what to respond a day or two later...it got put off by nearly 2 weeks. To answer your question: - My earliest loves were LEGO, computers, music, and vinyl records (and the equipment to play them on). Those base interests have never left me. - Outside that, they've gone all over the place. At one point, I dove deep into the development software behind 1990s computer games...not really a profitable lane, but one that became sought-after during COVID several years after I abandoned it. - During high school I was way into art and literature. - I'm also a self-taught coder in HTML/CSS with some PHP and JS on the side, and my latest love has been building apps using AI. - When my grandfather died, I had to dive knee-deep into estate law and probate. The government was slow and ineffective at making his death 'official', putting the documents in our hands and verifying his will. My dad and I searched so deep, we found his death was subject to a unique law that allowed us to skip AN ENTIRE YEAR of estate settlement drudgery. This is why I love my motto, "Solving real problems the masses cannot." Autistic folks rock at seeing the world differently. We poke holes in established systems in a way that gets results.
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Alexander Velitchko
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Computer user since 2. Marketer to medical, legal, & specialized contractors.

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