“Choose a woman who chooses you. If a man wants a woman who doesn’t want him, he cannot win. His neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will never be able to trust him.” - David Deida , The Way of the Superior Man It is of the highest importance to give your energy to a woman who is reciprocating your energy. Without this foundation, the dynamic of the relationship will be thrown off forever. Choose the girl who chooses you. Always.