Hello ladies, Welcome to my Soft Living Society, I'm SO excited to have you here and help you feel, look and be expensive! About me I was born in America but grew up in Nigeria before moving to the States at 16 for boarding school and college. I've always been passionate about fashion and style and I had a business in college selling African print clothing. I love all things style, self-care, beauty + health and I've been told by many people how great my style is and how well I care for myself. I have been told and consider myself High Maintenance. Why I started my community LAJA stands for the initials of my name (Lisa Ashan-wa Joannah Aliogo). I birthed this community as a safe space for women to be unapologetically high maintenance - in their groom, presentation and standards. I want every woman to feel worthy of support, luxury and quality and let go of "cheap" energy (constantly self-sacrificing, over-giving, over-explaining, people pleasing etc) What you will gain from my community You will gain mindset and knowledge on growing your relaxed hair, loosing weight and blitzing belly fat, embracing your feminine biology & rhythm, finance & investing. I have a personal network I will be bringing on to share their expertise on topics ranging from skincare to investing, relaxed hair and more. I'm happy you're here and for what's in store. Please introduce yourself and let me what questions you have❣️

Hello ladies, A lot of us in here work a day job. I do too. I ensure I look my best going to work not because I’m trying to impress others but as a form of self respect and putting myself first. Expensive women understand the power of appearance. They use their looks to attract not distract. By looking my best everyday for work, 👩🏾‍💻Uneccessary work passes me by 👩🏾‍💻Men and women are QUICK to assist me 👩🏾‍💻I’m taken more seriously when I speak 👩🏾‍💻I feel and attract more opportunities 👩🏾‍💻My expensive energy repels overworking opportunities 👩🏾‍💻I’m not resentful because I’m not over giving or working from a deficit. Do you dress up for work and if no, what’s your challenge? Sound off below and here’s my look of the day❣️

Hello ladies, Better late than rubbish🧚🏾‍♀️ My Christmas gift finally came in the mail from my suitor🎁. It’s a European custom hand made croc embossed leather bag. It took longer to create and arrived after Christmas. I intend to use it for work. Was the bag pricy? Likely but what makes this bag expensive outside the price tag 🏷️ ? 1. The material: crafted from premium leather 2. The structure: sturdy and holds its shape 3. Craftsmanship: hand made and stitched with superior finishing 4. Logo: non existent and irrelevant cause this bag screams expensive alone. Please watch my training on cultivating an expensive eye 👁️ 👁️so you can inform your man/date on your gifting preferences I’m thankful to God and my suitor❣️ https://www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/classroom/c13eb361?md=a674921a8b54488ab11c91c6eaa5bf7a

Hello ladies 🖤 This is not a glow-up sprint. This is a 90-day identity recalibration. As you move through the How to Be and Look Expensive course, we’ll be doing this together inside the 90-Day High Maintenance Glow Challenge—a daily practice of choosing maintenance, presence, and self-investment as a lifestyle, not a special occasion. For 90 days, I’ll be doing daily check-ins inside the community. These are not about perfection or performing for the internet. They’re about consistency, embodiment, and rewiring what “normal” looks like for you. This challenge trains your nervous system to understand: ✨ Maintenance is safe ✨ Being high-maintenance is self-respect ✨ Receiving support, compliments, and luxury is allowed How we’ll participate daily: • Sharing hair, makeup, outfit, and grooming wins • Celebrating maintenance (wash day, manicures, appointments) • Receiving feedback and refinement • Sharing what you treated yourself to • Acknowledging compliments, gifts, and support •Pouring into your health and fitness •Recognizing financial overflow no matter how little Because expensive energy isn’t about doing more—it’s about allowing more. 🎁 THE PRIZES Pictured are $1,000+ worth of luxury beauty prizes from Tom Ford & Estée Lauder—brands and products I personally use and love 💕 ✨ 3 Expensive Winners will be announced at the end of the 90 days. 📘 GUIDES TO SUPPORT YOU I’ve created dedicated guides to help you practice expensive energy daily, based on where you are right now: BEGINNERS: https://www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/classroom/c13eb361?md=351a3155a46e409badeb18ca9c60009e ADVANCED: https://www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/classroom/c13eb361?md=ae613b7de72e4532a0b642f76c8b3685 🗓️ IMPORTANT 🗝️ The challenge begins January 1st.