I mean the answer that immediately comes to mind is - We'll be known by our fruit - fruit of the spirit. In a more boots on the ground sense, I think that we would be finding ourselves more regulated (more authentically ourselves--operating in alignment with our values) in the moments we have with our families because we're rooted in our identity in Christ rather than looking for our identity to be determined by our family's responses to us. For example, if I'm rooted and grounded in the love of God, and my daughter comes up to me and tells me she hates me, I feel less phased by her words and am then able to get curious with her - "Hey kiddo, I need the way your speaking to me to stop. No one deserves to be spoken to like that. It does sound like I've really hurt you and I would love the opportunity to clean up that mess with your heart." If I'm not rooted or grounded in the love of God, and the same thing happens, I could imagine myself saying something to the tune of, "You don't mean that. Stop saying things like that, it's so rude and hurtful." or "Stop speaking right now and go to your room." The first aligns with my values of speaking truth right off the bat and then engaging connection, while the second may align with speaking truth in a skewed way, but isolates instead of connects.

Been on Skool for a while and found you while searching for family / parenting groups. But separately, I found this page by perusing your website. Watched your journey from afar for a while now.

Hey! My name is Aaron and I live in Redding CA. I run my own business doing life consulting. Been married 14 years and have two kiddos - one girl (12) and one boy (8). Insta Handle - @aaron_nims