This Saturday November 22nd... I'm hosting a private training to show you how to STOP having repeat arguments in your relationship... ...without needing therapy or years of counselling. This system is working RIGHT NOW... Even at a time when relationship breakdowns are at an all-time high... And despite the fact that 65% of relationships are failing. Even better? We're heading into the holiday season... Which tends to be when relationship tensions are at their highest... And arguments can spiral out of control faster than a toddler with a sugar rush! So... I'm going to spill ALL the secrets in this Free Live Masterclass and show you precisely how to break those toxic patterns for good. You’ll walk away knowing: * How to fix your bad communication so arguments don't keep repeating (this is a game-changer if you're tired of having the same fights) * How to heal past negative patterns so they stop destroying your current and future relationships * How to repair your relationship back to how it was in the beginning so you don't break up or live in resentment Aaaaand... I'm going to share how you can transform your relationship in less than 90 days. But here's the thing... We only have limited spots on the call. And this is going out to thousands of people who are desperate to fix their relationships. So I suggest you grab your spot now... And you can do that at the link below... ===> YES! I want to stop having arguments for good Let's goooo!

I'm writing this from a stunning resort in Bali, where I'm running an intimate retreat for some amazing coaches and entrepreneurs. Life is pretty incredible these days, not gonna lie. And I’m blessed to have enjoyed an incredible career: - Running sold-out events across 26 countries... - Building multiple 7-8 figure coaching businesses... - Getting invited to share stages with industry titans like Tony Robbins and Gary Vaynerchuk... - And helping thousands of coaches transform their lives. Which is all the more remarkable because I started with 3 E's at school and zero business experience lol. Obviously all this didn’t happen overnight… But if there was ONE strategy I could pinpoint which blew up my business more than anything else… And was responsible for more breakthroughs, more clients, and more recognition? Then without a doubt it would be publishing my first book. Sounds hypey I know… But even in 2025, something magical happens when you put your expertise into a physical book... * You instantly become "somebody" in your market. * Amazing opportunities land in your inbox. * Other experts and leaders want to meet you * Dream clients seek YOU out * Other experts want to collaborate and promote you * Sales resistance melts away And in today's AI-dominated world? Having a real book with your name on it matters more than ever. Because it shows you're the real deal and not just another "expert" recycling ChatGPT content. Since publishing my first book, the opportunities have been mind-blowing: > Featured in Forbes, Success Magazine and Inc > Built an 8-figure coaching empire > Won two "2 Comma Club" awards from ClickFunnels > Helped raise over £7.5M for the Heart Cell Foundation > Built a school for special needs children in Bali > Work as much or as little as I want > Run a profitable business I actually enjoy, not because I need the money Not bad for a guy who failed English at school! I mention it because, if you’re interested in getting your own book published…

Just landed in Bali! We’re here for our Healed Transformational Retreat. Super excited and can’t wait to get started and meet everyone who’s flown out. Plus it’s nice and hot here so it’s a welcome break from London! Which, funnily enough… brings me to the topic of today’s email:A “hot” coaching situation I had to deal with recently :-) You see, one of my relationship coaching clients (let's call her Jenny) was dealing with her “difficult” 92-year-old mother. And Jenny came into our Zoom session ready for battle 😅 "I don't want to take responsibility for my mother's shit!" she told me. "She was the adult, I was the child." "I've accepted her exactly as she is." But when I dug deeper, she admitted she still blamed her mother for everything. Now, most coaches would've tried to argue with her and to convince her she was wrong. (Good luck with that when someone's in that state...) Instead, I just asked: "Can you both accept someone AND blame them at the same time?" That's when something shifted. Because questions expose contradictions in a way arguments never can. When you argue with a client's position, they dig in deeper. But when you help them spot their own contradictions through questions... they have to confront what they actually believe. Jenny had to face the fact that she was stuck in a child-to-child pattern of communication with her mother. She thought she'd "accepted" the situation… but in reality she was still trapped in blame. Just by helping her see this contradiction, we opened up a completely new pathway for healing. No arguing required. All it takes is the right questions at the right time. Which is how real breakthroughs happen… even when you’re dealing with a stubborn, angry, or hot headed client.

I was telling this story to my relationship coaching clients the other day... I'd gone to visit my parents on Sunday to help set up a camera to watch their dogs. While sorting it out upstairs, I accidentally unplugged my dad's internet cable. Didn't think much of it at the time… But then I called the next day to check if they were okay... And my dad absolutely lost it. "Why did you unplug the internet? What the f*ck were you doing?" "Look, I'm sorry. I didn't know I had..." "What were you DOING?!" He was getting more and more worked up. And this is where it gets interesting... Because as a relationship coach, I teach my clients how to handle these exact triggering moments. But now I was in one myself. So I demonstrated exactly what I teach: "Look, I get you're frustrated. I've said sorry three times now. Let me call you back when you're a little calmer, because right now, I'm not sure this is going to be the healthiest conversation for us." Now, every part of me wanted to snap back and say "You f*cking prick, shut up!" (We've all been there, right?) But here's what I've learned after coaching thousands of coaches and relationship clients... The moment you match someone's triggered energy, you've lost control of the situation. That's why I teach my clients specific pattern-breaking techniques: - Hand on heart - Four seconds in, four seconds out breathing - Naming the emotion - Understanding why you feel this way - Finding another perspective Simple? Yes. But when you're in that moment – whether it's with a client or family member – these tools become pure gold. Because they create space between trigger and response. And that's where you can guide someone from emotional reaction to conscious response. As coaches… We need these tools ourselves before we can effectively teach them to others. Look, I don't know if your relationships are perfect or if you're struggling with arguments and triggers like this... But if you'd like to experience this kind of transformation in your own life, here's the deal...

Clients always say to me that the hardest person to be honest with is their partner. And while I appreciate that for some that is the case. But from all my years of coaching (both my clients and myself), what I’ve found is, really the hardest person to be honest with isn't your partner at all… it's yourself. People often say they want to feel connected to their partner, but real connection doesn’t start when someone holds your hand or leans in for a kiss. Connection starts when you stop running from what’s going on inside you and you start being honest…. Honest about your connection with yourself. The first step it to stop acting like everything’s okay and actually face the things you don’t like to admit… The fear… The guilt… The shame… The loneliness. And instead of trying to bury them and pretend they don’t exist, be honest about then and just sit with them and listen. Because connection isn't built on chemistry or attraction. Connection is built on honesty and the self-awareness to say, “This is me right now and this is where I’m at”, even when it feels scary and uncomfortable. And when you do that, something changes. You start to feel seen because you’ve been open, and you’ve shared what is happening for you right now. Now you are being truthful with what you had been afraid to share. And this is where true connection begins. Connection no longer feeling like a show and starts feeling real. And it’s all because you’ve stopped pretending. The connection isn’t about the physical contact, it’s about you and your partner saying to each other, “I get you.” And it starts with you. Honestly, how connected are you with you right now?