With the few little things I carry—cigarette rolling machine, prescription sunglasses, e.g.—a sling bag is a lifesaver… not too bulky, and easy to carry while wearing a more casual outfit. But I have a question for those who use them… when sitting a a cafe, is it okay to leave it on, or is it better to hang it over the chair or place it in your lap?

Nice to be here amongst y’all… I look forward to both being able to garner some style knowledge from those of you who have been successfully walking this path for a while and in helping others who are just starting this journey and are encountering the same pitfalls I have. This started for me with expected transatlantic boat trips as I prepare for retirement in Europe. The boat trips are not as likely now, as we begin to make our plans eight years out. We are anticipating a retirement in Paris, and though I never expect to be mistaken there for a fellow Frenchman, I would like to blend in and not be immediately struck at first sight as a tourist… I assume having the effortless elegance will go a long way towards that goal.