Welcome to the inner circle of your reclamation. As your Soft Life Midwife, I am here to hold the light while you navigate your transition. To ensure this space remains a sanctuary for both of us, we will use Voxer with specific, intentional rhythms. 1. The Asynchronous Flow Voxer is our tool for the "Italicized" life—it is meant to be slow and curved, not a rapid-fire "Bold" hustle. - The Rhythm: Please leave your thoughts as they come to you. I will listen and respond during my designated "Sanctuary Hours." - The Response: Expect a thoughtful response within 24–48 hours, Tuesday through Thursday. I do not check messages on weekends or evenings to protect my own "Soft Life" reclamation. 2. The Depth Limit To keep our focus sharp and avoid the "clutter" of the standard font world, we follow the 3-Minute Rule: - Keep it Focused: Please limit voice notes to 3 minutes or less per topic. - Quality Over Quantity: This encourages you to find your "unique emphasis" before you hit record, rather than "performing" a long stream of consciousness. 3. No "Emergency" Energy In this sanctuary, we are un-learning the habit of artificial urgency. - Non-Urgent Space: Voxer is for processing your "labor" and your "letting go". - The Pause: If you are feeling a "Bold" sense of panic, I encourage you to use the Pregnant Pause tools from Module 2 before reaching out. Most of the time, the answer is already waiting in your own silence. 4. Protecting the Midwife I cannot help you birth your most peaceful self if I am drowning in "puppet strings" myself. - Mutual Respect: By honoring these boundaries, you are practicing the very self-preservation skills this course teaches. - Access, Not Ownership: This tier provides you with my expert guidance and "Midwife" perspective, but it does not mean I am "on-call" for daily minutiae.

You’ve spent far too long in the "Bold" world—rushing, performing, and living in a standard font that wasn't written by you. You’ve been the hero for everyone else, pulling the strings and spinning the wheels, while your own soul was on mute. Take a deep breath. You can stop performing now. I created this community to be a sacred harbor for your personal reclamation. This is not another place to add to your to-do list; this is where we facilitate your Soft Life transition together. As your Soft Life Midwife, I am here to hold the light while you navigate the labor of letting go and birthing the most peaceful, authentic version of yourself. In this sanctuary, we speak in italics—with intention, beauty, and our own unique emphasis. How to Start Your Reclamation To kick things off, I want to hear your voice. Please introduce yourself below by answering these three questions: 1. What "string" or "Bold" habit are you most excited to leave behind? 2. What does a "Soft Life" look like for you in this current season? 3. If you could describe your truest self in just one "italicized" word, what would it be? I am so honored to be on this journey with you. Let’s begin.