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ADHD-ADD Behavior
Does anybody have experience with anything related to ADD and ADHD? What are the actual symptoms? How do you deal with it? What are the possible effects of parents teaching ADD/ADHD behaviors to their children?
0 likes • Apr 11
@Nural Seker Thank you for your generous input! Talking to a fellow parent, he told me, that a less known ADHD symptom is that sometimes his mind shuts down in the middle of a discussion and is zoning out suddenly. It sounds awful and painful to be honest. He was worrying that this has being passed to his children, seem to do the same sometimes. And it makes me wonder.. What if some attitudes that could be described as ADHD, are just being taught from the parent? For example, if a parent has 0 emotional regulation skills, is consistently unfocused and have difficulties starting any task, isn't it like obvious that the child will also learn those..."skills"? Is ADHD at the end of the day, lack of skills? Are there similarities to "light" ASD?
Your Teen Son Ignores Your Advice But Listens to Strangers. Here’s Why.
This week's video and theme sheds light on why teenagers seem immune to parental advice even when it's perfectly sound, reasonable, straight talk. What follows below is not a summary of the whole video, but the first in a series of daily posts that untangle this phenomenon. ---------------------------------------------------------- During adolescence, the brain undergoes major remodeling, especially in areas tied to reward, identity, and social evaluation (e.g., prefrontal cortex vs. limbic system balance). This creates a few predictable shifts... an increased sensitivity to status and social hierarchy, stronger drive for autonomy and separation, as well as a heightened emotional reactivity to parents specifically. Adolescence is fundamentally about answering “who am I, separate from my parents?”. And this is most easily done by disagreeing with your parents, discounting their worldview, and re-evaluating everything externally. If teens blindly accepted parental advice, identity formation would stall 😉 Makes sense, right? Tomorrow I will go into some more detail of this phenomenon at play, including how parents can say things so the message lands without triggering shutdown or pushback. Here's the video
3 likes • Apr 2
True words! While they are little, we can "hide" our own shortcomings. But it is impossible to hide them or leave them untouched when they reach their adolescence years. So even if the advice is sound but does not match the parent's lifestyle, they will not only ignore it, they will also judge it to form the “who am I, separate from my parents?” as you mentioned.
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