free will exists, but to a certain degree. we cannot control or create all external situations. furthermore, these external situations or experiences are given to us by source/ the universe to offer us a chance to grow and evolve, regardless of whether we perceive or label the experience as "good" or "bad". so in summary, we can work on ourselves to the limitations of our conscious awareness, but the universe presents us with opportunities to further our growth, only if you are open to all experiences