Hang in thereβ¦seriously!!
A little vulnerable transparency. Vince has been more tuned in to some of the chaos going on for my family the last 8-ish months, but Iβll give a brief recap. In May I lost my job, which was our only means of income. My wife was finishing nursing school (went back to complete her RN after 16 years as an LPN), and thankfully landed a job quickly. We put our house on the market, moved across the state, have been living with in-laws, kids entered new schoolsβ¦just a lot. I was teaching adjunct for a college, but the contract didnβt renew due to student/course ratio. Then my wifeβs job unexpectedly went haywire, and she was being told they didnβt have work for her unless she went to another city. We struggled to find a house, with multiple offers being turned down, and Iβve received either NOs or radio silence on every job application submitted. Itβs been pretty crappy, and Iβve really struggled to get moving on runs, lifts, some days just getting out of the house. But I had a small circle of people I trust constantly pushing light into that darkness, and acknowledging it sucks but itβll all be fine. I couldnβt agree more. Life is messy and sucks at times, and Iβm the worst for trying to seem like itβs βall togetherβ on social media. Iβm also one of the most stupidly stubborn people ever placed on this earth, and Iβll ride something out as far as I can until thereβs nowhere else to go - maybe thatβs why Iβm drawn to trail runningβ¦ My intent here is not to be Tony Robbins, but rather really say hang in there. And if you know someone going through something, a simple βthinking about youβ text can be monumental (gotten several of these from people here going into races). So, now the sunshine. My wife reached out to three medical facilities, and had a new (more stable) job within a week. After months, we were able to buy a piece of land, and weβll start construction on a house after the first of the year. And today, I accepted a position with Tennessee Tech University in the town we moved to for my wifeβs original job. I havenβt even made that βFacebook Officialβ yet, and really wanted to tell you all first. So, hang in there. The path may not be what you expected, but it may be better than you ever imagined.