The scared people of the land thought it was sorcery. They had no idea of the hours he spent honing his skills to the point he could overcome any obstacle no matter the size or complexity. #discipline #courage #knowing

Brothers! As I mentioned in circle on Thursday, my intent for this community is to support each other in as many ways as possible. I would love if each of you shared your offerings below, including how and where we can be supportive. Please do not hesitate to call in more support when needed. As you have events on the horizon, please send them to me and I will add the to the calendar so we can all stay up to date on each others happenings and continue to grow as one! For example: @Mark Lee has an expo coming up. @Adam Hudson is often leading workshops. @Patrick Antrobus offers financial coaching.

Men of Standard, What an incredible way to start the day. Thank you for showing up with open minds and open hearts! Reflecting on this morning’s first Men of Standard circle. 8 men showed up at 7am to sit together, reflect, and have real conversation. That alone says something. One thing I left thinking about was how uncommon it is for men to openly acknowledge what they are proud of. We opened the circle by sharing something we’ve done recently that we are genuinely proud of, and I challenged the men to speak it clearly and firmly. Not arrogantly. Not apologetically. Just honestly. It struck me how many men carry responsibility quietly. We work, provide, support others, handle pressure, solve problems, and keep moving, often without ever pausing to recognize ourselves for it. There was something powerful about hearing men own their efforts out loud. We also spent time talking about responsibility in relationships. One brother reflected on stepping more fully into responsibility. Another spoke about responsibility that had been volunteered onto him. I shared that I’ve recognized myself retracting responsibility in some family relationships. That conversation opened up a bigger reflection around standards. What standards do we hold for ourselves? What standards do we hold for others? When are we leading well? When are we controlling? When are our expectations rooted in love, and when are they rooted in fear, resentment, or projection? A few thoughts I’ve continued sitting with since the circle: • Not every unmet expectation is disrespect. Sometimes it’s lack of communication or capacity. • Holding standards and controlling people are not the same thing. • It’s important to ask: “Am I modeling the standard I expect from others?” • Some people lack character. Others simply lack capacity, awareness, or tools. • We shouldn’t lower standards to avoid discomfort. But we also shouldn’t weaponize standards to make ourselves feel superior. I left this morning feeling grateful.