Truthfully, up until this point, I had tried so desperately to keep our life damn near perfect for our children.
We made all the little daily decisions off of major research—and heck, I even double majored in college on child emotional development—and this curveball we were dealing with, well, it was simply out of our control.
We invest our time, energy, and money into getting exactly what we want for our children. Sounds insane, but it's true.
To put it short, our life with them has been very intentional.
And truthfully they hadn't been met with much adversity… up until this point.
And I remember my mind spiraling. With all my understanding and knowledge, and real life experiences – I could just SEE (and feel) how much this situation was going to have lasting impacts on the rest of their life.
Their little nervous systems were trying desperately to keep up.
Their world rocked (temporarily for 2 years) but felt like forever.
Separation anxiety and attachment issues were popping up.
And there was nothing we could do to change it. (Which are words that almost never come out of my mouth. I am the absolute queen at solutions. Yet this one seriously humbled me.)
Little did I know that after all was said and done that this was going to be the single greatest thing to have ever happened to our family.
Little did I know what a gift this was truly going to be for them.
In this week's webinar we are going deep on How to Embrace Your Unhealed Trauma as the Greatest Gift You Could Give Your Kids.
You'll Learn:
(1) How children specifically choose you to be their parent and why
(2) Why your unhealed trauma is actually serving them more than parents who don’t have as much trauma
(3) Why everyone is putting such an emphasis on getting to the next layer of healing (and totally missing the healing lessons truths from the present moment) and how to reverse this.
(4) How your children use their mirror neurons to watch you live your life and how you can use that to your advantage as a parent.
Come get the reframe your higher self is guiding you toward this week. If you are reading this, she's worked OT to get this to you!
Register here and I'll see you Wednesday, January 21st at 9am MST.