One of the things I have learned in my journey is that detachment is power When you are able to detach from the outcome and focus on the process, things happen a lot easier Ultimately, reality is all about your state And the state of detachment is one of the highest vibrational states there is How do you find where you are too attached? This should be easily identifiable by looking at your actions Your actions are a manifestation of your priorities So first, you gotta figure out where you are attached Where are you giving excess meaning to? Where might have you gone a little too far? Then, you gotta figure out how to detach yourself First, where are you attached? This might not be an easy question to answer straightaway, since we are not the greatest at seeing our blind spots - most often So the secret is in looking at our unconscious behavior Until you make the unconscious conscious it will rule your life and you will call it fate So step 1: look at your behavior See what kind of actions you take that seem excessive from the outside That seem like you might have some attachment If you need help with it, ask someone who knows you to describe where you might be attached Often times it is a lot easier for other people to notice this Step 2: find out how to detach yourself Detaching yourself is a process You can detach from multiple things For example - detaching from the outcome Detaching from yourself Detaching from your goal The most effective way to detach yourself is to ask yourself: “How do I let go?” “How do I truly let go?” Then give yourself time to come up with the answer This is how you figure out where you are attached As well as how you figure out how you can detach Look to your behavior, ask other people and be patient Then, as you detach yourself - your energy frees up You are able to move more freely, you literally unclamp the strings like you would on a doll You cut the strings I should say That is the main advantage of doing this