âWhatâs holding me back from the life I really want?â
Itâs a big question â and one most of us avoid because the answer requires honesty, courage, and a willingness to tell ourselves the truth.
But today, I want to invite you to do something different.
When you sit down for your Sunday Reset âbefore the lists, before the planning, before the noise of the week ahead âgive yourself a few quiet minutes to ask this one question:
âWhatâs actually standing between me and the life I want?â
And then⌠be honest with your answer.
Because sometimes whatâs holding us back isnât a lack of time, talent, or opportunity.
Sometimes itâs:
⢠People weâve outgrown but keep holding onto.
⢠Habits that feel comfortable but keep us stuck.
⢠Stories weâve told ourselves for years that no longer match who we are.
⢠Obligations that drain us instead of support us.
⢠Old versions of ourselves weâre afraid to release.
This prompt asks you to pause long enough to see whatâs really there â
not with judgment, but with clarity.
In my own life (and in the lives of so many clients), breakthroughs have happened not by doing moreâŚbut by letting go of what no longer fits.
The relationship that constantly drains your energy.
The habit that steals your mornings.
The fear that keeps you playing safe.
The narrative that tells you youâre not ready.
What if the thing holding you back isnât external at all â
but the weight youâve been carrying long after you were meant to set it down?
This Sunday, let yourself explore it.
Not to criticize yourself.
Not to shame yourself.
But to free yourself.
Your next chapter requires space â and clarity creates it.
If youâre willing to be honest with yourself this week, this prompt can open a door you didnât even realize was locked.
So tell meâŚ
When you sit with this question during your Sunday Reset, whatâs the first thing that comes to mind?