Identity Comes Before Title
Do not miss this. Wife is a beautiful title. But wife is not your source.
Marriage is honorable. But marriage is not your identity.
Before you are a wife, you are a daughter. Before you carry someone’s last name, you carry purpose. Before a man chooses you, God already called you valuable. Before you become “his,” you already belong to Him.
And when a woman does not know who she is, she will let relationships rename her.
Rejected.
Abandoned.
Too much.
Not enough.
Divorced.
Broken.
Behind.
Forgotten.
Unchosen.
But Heaven does not call you by the name pain gave you. God calls you daughter.
Loved.
Called.
Covered.
Restored.
Chosen.
Anchored.
Whole.
Becoming.
That is why the second part of The W.I.F.E. Framework is Identified.
Because identity must come before title.
A title can reveal what you carry, but it should never become the thing that gives you worth.
So whether you are single, married, divorced, engaged, waiting, or healing, your identity is not on pause.
You are not less woman because you are single.
You are not less valuable because you are divorced.
You are not more complete only because you are married.
You are God’s daughter right now.
Not later.
Now.
And when you know who you are, you stop begging for spaces God never assigned you to.
You stop shrinking to be chosen.
You stop confusing attachment with love.
You stop letting delay define your value.
You stop making covenant an idol and start becoming a woman with capacity.
Question: What false name are you ready to stop answering to?
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