I'm under no illusion that discussions about the nature of hell don't sometimes get a little "heated." (Pun intended). What I do believe is that the conversation is worth having. I do believe that the topic is an important one, as it colors the way and tenor by which today's church presents the gospel to the world.
My prayer is that you simply take time to investigate Scripture, study for yourself, and make an informed decision. Getting past our own biases and presumptions can be a challenge. But it isn't impossible. It also isn't very comfortable.
Prepare to be discomforted.
Now... let's go to "hell."