Tantra is not just about sex. It’s a path of enlightenment based on self awareness, and appreciation for all things. It promotes the shedding of shame and fear, and offers a pathway to self awareness. Energy play is part of tantra, as is hatha yoga, and kundalini - they are part of the whole. When we know ourself, when we have healed our wounds, if we unite with a partner at that same point, then we attain something greater than ourself - a divine union, a nurturing relationship, where our needs are spoken freely, and endeavoured to be met by our partner, and vice versa