Apr '25 • General discussion
You Don’t Want a Partner. You Want a Product.
Stop trying to build a person like you’re customizing a character in a dating simulator.
You want a submissive woman? Cool. Can you lead without becoming a control freak? Or do you just want power without responsibility?
You want a successful woman? Fantastic. Are you secure enough to love someone who doesn’t need you? Or do you shrink when she shines?
You want a stay-at-home partner? Great. Are you prepared to carry all the weight financially—without resentment, without weaponizing it?
You want a working woman who still runs the house like a 1950s sitcom character? Be serious. You don’t want a partner. You want an unpaid emotional concierge who also splits the rent.
People are not meal plans. They’re not plug-and-play lifestyle presets. They’re messy, shifting, layered human beings with opinions, boundaries, inner lives, and the audacity to change over time.
If you want precision, go build a machine.
If you want love, learn how to hold contradiction.
But don’t stand there, angry and confused, because the human you picked didn’t behave like the idea you invented.
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You Don’t Want a Partner. You Want a Product.
