Jan 9 (edited) • 💬 General Chat
“THE ‘I’M BEHIND’ PATTERN”
There’s a pattern I see a lot of people carrying and it’s that nagging voice that says, “I should be further along by now.” Or, “Everyone else is ahead of me.” Or just that heavy sense that you are late to your own life.
But the hardest part isn’t the thought itself but it’s the feeling underneath it. Usually a feelling of guilt that hits you the second you try to rest on the weekend. It’s the feeling that you’re constantly running to catch up, but never actually getting there.
From the outside, you look capable. But inside? You feel like shit.
I learnt that this was nothing to do withbeing "lazy".
It's surviving.
Maybe you had to grow up early, or you were the one who had to hold it all together for everyone else.
Somewhere along the way, your system learned that slowing down wasn’t safe. It learned: “If I stop, I fall.”
So it keeps you moving, even when it messes you up.
If this sounds like you, please don’t analyze it. Don’t try to "fix" it today. Just notice when it shows up this week.
That is enough for now.
Danny
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“THE ‘I’M BEHIND’ PATTERN”
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