Love is not meant to keep you anxious, guessing, or overextending yourself just to feel chosen. A healthy relationship brings clarity, consistency, and emotional safety. You should feel respected in private and in public, valued without having to prove your worth, and secure without constantly questioning where you stand. The right person does not confuse you with mixed signals or make you earn basic effort. They show up, communicate honestly, and choose you even when it is inconvenient. If a connection costs you your peace more than it adds to your life, it is information. Pay attention to how love feels in your body, not just how it sounds in words.