🪵 The Pillars We Stand On
When I first thought about starting this community, I imagined it would be for creatives, performers, storytellers, or entrepreneurs. People who WANTED to do something with their lives.
That’s the world I came from.
And I still love it.
But the longer I sat with the idea, the more I realized something about fathers:
We’re not people who want to do things with our lives.
We’re people who HAVE to.
There are no more excuses.
No more “when I finally have time” or “once things calm down.”
There is only showing up.
And that’s where the framework, or the pillars, of this Skool come in.
Not rules. Not commandments.
Just reminders of how we keep showing up for ourselves, and for the little eyes watching.
⚙️ The Four Pillars
These are the cornerstones that guide what we practice here.
Not all at once. Not perfectly. Just consistently.
1️⃣ Train Daily
Growth doesn’t happen in the background.
It’s built through repetition in body, mind, and craft.
When we train daily, we teach our kids that consistency beats talent.
2️⃣ Act Boldly
We’ve already played small.
Now, every choice, every risk, every “I’ll try”, shows them what courage looks like.
3️⃣ Invest Wisely
Our time, our energy, our attention; these are currencies.
What we invest in, we multiply.
And what we neglect, we lose.
4️⃣ Love Honestly
It’s the hardest one.
Because honesty demands presence.
It means our kids see us as we are. Imperfect, human, still learning, and they love us not despite that, but because of it.
These aren’t lessons for our kids.
They’re lessons for us.
Because the truth is, fatherhood doesn’t ask us to stop dreaming. It asks us to make those dreams visible.
To keep building, creating, and living in a way that says,
“This is what it looks like to keep becoming.”
Welcome to the work.
Welcome to The Fatherhood Framework.
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