One upside to being a creator with AI: when you don't know what to do, you can make something.
A friend lost his wife. Watched everyone default to "how you holding up, you okay, anything I can do."
So I made him a song instead. Something he can play before visitors show up, so he doesn't have to keep managing everyone else's helplessness.
This is my way of helping because I refuse to ask those same old questions.