"I can't."
I've heard all three of my kiddos say it.
"I can't hit that pitch."
"I can't catch up to him... or her."
"I can't make that team."
My answer?
Maybe you can't... yet.
๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.
Because "๐™„ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ" is a dead end.
"๐—ฌ๐—ฒ๐˜" leaves room to grow.
The same is true in business... and life.
"I can't grow my community."
"I can't make videos."
"I can't get clients."
What if the truth is...
๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™Ÿ๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™š๐™ฉ?
Instead of focusing on what you can't control, ask yourself:
๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—น?
And...
๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—œ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ธ?
๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ.
๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†'๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€.
Take control of what you can. Then do that.
One day, "I can't" becomes...
"๐™„'๐™ข ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™œ๐™ก๐™–๐™™ ๐™„ ๐™™๐™ž๐™™๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™ฆ๐™ช๐™ž๐™ฉ." ๐Ÿ’œ
๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿฝ What's one action you can take today that your future self will thank you for?
โœ… I'm adding "yet."
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