How to force yourself to finally do something you've been wanting to do but keep putting off: Create a "point of no return" for yourselfโafter that, backing out simply isn't an option anymore
๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐บ๐ถ๐๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐:
๐ฅ Cross the Threshold
๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ง๐ญ๐บ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ต๐ณ๐บ? ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ท๐ช๐ด๐ข. ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ถ๐บ ๐ข ๐ค๐ข๐ณ? ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ'๐ด ๐ญ๐ช๐ค๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฆ. ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ-๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ช๐ด๐ช๐ต๐ฆ ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ.
๐ฅ The "Skin in the Game" Move
๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ. ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ข ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ช๐ต. ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ช๐ต ๐ต๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ด. ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ข ๐ช๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ข๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ช๐ต ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ช๐ต.
๐ฅ Stop the Internal Ghosting
๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ท๐ฆ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฐ๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ, ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ'๐ต ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง. ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ช๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ. ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ด ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ "๐ช๐ง" ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ช๐ต ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ด ๐ง๐ช๐จ๐ถ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต "๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ" ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ ๐ช๐ต.
๐ฌ ๐๐ฆ๐ต'๐ด ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ช๐ฅ๐จ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ถ๐ด:
โก๏ธ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฎ๐น: What is the one thing youโve been putting off?
โก๏ธ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ: What is your "point of no return" action? (e.g., buying the ticket, paying the deposit)
โก๏ธ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ: When are you going to cross that line?