How often have you wanted to start something new, but just couldn't make it stick?
Trying to launch new habits out of nowhere is an illusion. With ADHD, internal action initiation is broken. Your brain doesn't register internal intentions as a signal to start especially for new (or long-forgotten) actions.
But there's a strategy that actually works: Habit Stacking.
๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐ก๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐๐ป๐๐ผ ๐๐
๐ถ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฅ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐:
๐คฉ Step 1: Find a Stable Anchor โ๏ธ
๐ข๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ด ๐ด๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐จ๐จ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ข๐ช๐ฏ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ๐ด ๐ช๐ง ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ด๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ข ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ. ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข ๐ค๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ณ๐บ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต, ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ต ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ช๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ญ๐บ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ.
๐คฉ Step 2: Hyper-Specific Terms ๐
๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ (๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ), ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต (๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ 2 ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ถ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด), ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฆ. ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ง "๐ฑ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฅ๐ข๐บ," ๐ต๐ณ๐บ "๐ข๐ง๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ง๐ข๐ด๐ต, ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐ฆ 1 ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ."
๐คฉ Step 3: The Connection Formula ๐
๐ด๐ข๐บ ๐ช๐ต ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฅ: "๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ/๐ข๐ง๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ [๐ข๐ฏ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ], ๐ช ๐ฅ๐ฐ [๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ]." ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ญ๐ข ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ข๐ด๐ด๐ฐ๐ค๐ช๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐จ๐ฏ๐ช๐ป๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ช๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ.
๐คฉ Step 4: Add a Visual Marker ๐
๐ฆ๐น๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ณ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ญ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ฌ๐บ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ช๐จ๐ช๐ต๐ข๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ต๐ด ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ง๐ช๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ง๐ฐ๐ค๐ถ๐ด, ๐ด๐ช๐จ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ด ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ข๐บ.
๐คฉ Step 5: Track & Troubleshoot ๐
๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ค๐ช๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ. ๐ช๐ง ๐ช๐ต ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฅ๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฌ, ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง ๐ถ๐ฑโ๐ง๐ช๐จ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ช๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ฎ๐ช๐ด๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฐ ๐ท๐ข๐จ๐ถ๐ฆ.
๐ฌ ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐บ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ณ๐บ ๐ช๐ต? ๐๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฑ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ด:
โก๏ธ ๐๐ป๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ฟ: What is your daily stable habit?
โก๏ธ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป: What is the tiny new behavior?
โก๏ธ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐๐น๐ฎ: "Before/after X, I do Y"
โก๏ธ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐น ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฟ: What will remind you?
โก๏ธ ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐: Who are you reporting to?
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