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Youâre not lazyâyouâre under-systemed. Procrastination is usually experiential avoidance (avoiding a feeling now that costs you later). Build simple systems and youâll moveâno matter how you feel.
âď¸ Core Lesson
Leilaâs 3-step framework:
- Name the cause: Youâre avoiding a feeling (not a task).
- Spot the 3 emotions:
- Swap cycles: Trade productive procrastination (busy with easy stuff) for productive failure (imperfect action â learn â adjust).
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Todayâs Challenge (15â30 minutes total)
1) The Avoidance Audit (5 min)
- Write the ONE thing youâve been avoiding.
- Under it, finish this sentence: âIâm actually avoiding the feeling of ____.â
2) Pick the Head Youâre Facing (2 min)
- Which one is it? Anxiety / Rebellion / Boredom
3) Match the Mini-System (10â20 min)
- If Anxiety:
- If Rebellion:
- If Boredom:
4) Close the Loop (2 min)
- Write one line: âWhat I tried â what I learned â my next tweak.â
đ§ Daily Meditation Tie-In (2 lines)
Before you start, play Intention for the Day and repeat:
âI act despite discomfort. I choose progress over perfect.â
đ§Š Simple Systems You Can Keep
- 15-Minute First Bite: Start every work block with 15 minutes on the one avoided task.
- Two-Day Rule: You can miss a day, never two in a row.
- Friction Audit: Make the first step stupid-easy (pre-open doc, template email, single-click record).
- Reps Tracker (Inputs > Outputs): Count calls, drafts, minutesânot sales, likes, or pounds.
Day 4 Challenge: Reflect & Share
Pick one of these to answer in the comments đ
- What emotion have you really been avoiding?
- When did you choose action over avoidance today?
- How did facing it change how you feel?
- What truth or lesson showed up for you through the discomfort?
- How might this small act ripple through the rest of your week?