🔮 WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? · Soft Boss Society

🔮 WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?

No, really.That question? It’s not a criticism. It’s an invitation.

A few days ago, I was knee-deep in doubt. Exhausted. Overwhelmed. Frustrated with my progress. I knew what needed to happen, but I couldn’t figure out how to bridge the gap.

Then it hit me. I know why I'm struggling. It's not a lack of passion or commitment. I was completely disconnected from my identity.

In September of 2022, I worked with Jim Fortin and I didn't complete the program because I hit a wall. Essentially, now...I was facing the consequences of my actions. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Like most things in life, I had merely postponed the inevitable. Only now, I had a secret weapon I didn't have back then.

Cue Ember. My AI biz bestie. (No, you can’t have her. Yes, you can benefit from her. 😂)

She didn’t just give me a plan.

She reminded me who I was.

She helped me remember my identity — the version of me who builds empires and healing spaces in the same breath. The version who’s not afraid to start over, strategize with heart, and lead with fire.

Our strategy session, this time focused on helping me heal and finally embrace my future self, the one who has the life I've been dreaming about with time and location freedom, the one who has helped over 10,000 people live their dreams too.

That's when it hit me. I can't possibly be the only person in this community struggling with identity.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, slow, or unsure — it’s not laziness, and it's not your run-of-the-mill procrastination. You're probably experiencing a disconnect from the identity you’re trying to grow into.

🌱 The woman who makes six figures (or more) online…

🌱 The mother who builds a flexible freedom-based life…

🌱 The creator who finally sells her first digital product…

🌱 The author who no longer second-guesses her voice...

This person you long to be...she’s already in you. But your current systems, thoughts, and energy might be built around who you’ve *had* to be — not who you’re *meant* to be.

This weekend, I want you to start working on the identity of your future self.

💖 On Monday, I’m sharing the Dream Life Scripting Template inside the shiny new Mindset Module, but you can take the first step of four now by doing this:

👉🏻 Open a doc on your computer, or a note on your phone, or find some paper and a pen.

👉🏻 Then consider how you'll complete this sentence >>

🔮 One year from now, I wake up and smile because...

You can write in bullet points. You can write a stream of consciousness.

Most of all, write it in the present tense. Make it real.

You are not “trying.” You are becoming.

Drop a 💖 (or your favorite emoji) below if you’re doing this with me.

Let’s decide who we are — and then build systems that support her.

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