Good morning gentlemen, We always hear the phrase “being a man of your word.” There are some that take this phrase to mean that you only keep your word if you actually say these exact words. But it’s much more than that as a gentleman. As a gentleman, every word you speak, you should understand you are held accountable for. It is not just a promise you make to someone. It’s the words you speak to your family, friends, co-workers, yes even strangers. Every word we speak and yes write should be well thought out. If you speak harshly towards someone, if you speak derogatory towards someone, if you gossip, this shows a reflection on you and your integrity as well. This also goes for when you write or respond in writing. Sometimes this is even worse, because we tend to put in writing things that we would not say in person. ( Disclaimer, when I say we I am not calling out anyone or assuming that everyone does this, this “we” is referring to the human race. So do not take this as finger pointing, calling out someone.) We have to make sure that what we say, we understand and mean what we say and be willing to stand behind what we say. This is extremely important when you make a promise to someone or you use the term, “ You have my word.” Now, having said this, we all know that things happen beyond our control, when this happens it is imperative that you go to the person you made the commitment to and apologize and explain why to were unable to fulfill your obligation. Not saying that if it’s personal you have to tell your personal business, but simply state “ something personal came up and I apologize.” And if you can at a later date fulfill that obligation, if possible give them a time in which you can meet that obligation. Gentlemen let’s be men of our words.

Gentlemen, This morning I had to take my wife to the doctors for an outpatient surgery. As I am sitting in the waiting room, (by the way 12 people in here 10 on their phones ) I digress; but this gentleman came in wearing beige slacks, black shirt, with a appears to be herringbone blazer black/ tan. He looked very nice and I would say older maybe 60’s ish. But what got my wife’s attention then she brought it to me is the mixed match socks. One is striped black and tan, the other is blue with white stars on it. I know it’s Veteran Day and one appears to be like stars or patriotic. I’m not judging but I want your opinion on this . Even though it’s veteran day, and yes he is older than what the younger generation likes doing this all the time. Do you think it’s appropriate, or not. I’m just curious?