Most of what you believe about dating was handed to you by culture, family, heartbreak, and the internet.
Not the true dynamics of relationships and reality.
Not through deep awareness and critical thinking.
Not emotional maturity.
You were conditioned to expect disappointment.
You are being conditioned to mistrust the opposite sex.
Your unconscious will chase patterns that match your past.
If you want real love, you have to challenge the beliefs that shaped you. Because those beliefs are shaping your choices right now.
When you question the narrative, you stop repeating it.When you understand yourself, you stop attracting what hurts.
What have you been "trained" to believe that no longer serves you? What have you let go of already?