Red Flag Archive: The Lab is a private, documentation-first community for people navigating confusing, high-conflict, or destabilizing relationships — at work, in families, or in intimate partnerships.
This is not a support group.
It's a pattern analysis lab.
Inside, members learn how to:
- Identify repeating red flag patterns (gaslighting, DARVO, blame-shifting)
- Separate behavior from emotion and self-doubt
- Turn confusion into timelines, receipts, and clarity
- Rebuild self-trust through observation, not reassurance
- Communicate without over-explaining or self-abandoning
This space is for you if:
- You keep second-guessing yourself
- Conversations always end with you apologizing
- You feel something is wrong but can’t explain why
- You want clarity more than comfort
Participation is flexible.Reading counts.Silence is allowed.
Clarity comes before healing.
Patterns don’t lie.
People Do.
Founded by Kim Parsi,
creator of Red Flag Archive™.